Category Archives: Kathy Infeld

Kathy D Infeld has been happily and successfully married for over 39 years to her one and only husband. She says it takes work, but it is so worth it. She wants this for you too and will share her secrets right here on The Broke Wives Club web site.

KATHY | Will You or Your Partner Roam?

Will you or your partner develop a wandering eye and end up cheating on the relationship with another person? Kathy gives 10 questions to ask yourself to gauge if you are going to find a third person in your romantic life. Get a pen and …

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KATHY | Love Still Blooming After 39 Years of Marriage

  It feels so profound that this week my husband and I are married 39 years.  I am so moved. These 39 years together have included so many experiences, growth, learning, fun, challenges, and blessings.  I am so grateful that we get to experience this …

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KATHY | Healing it Forward | Leaving a Legacy in Love

  A committed relationship is one of the very best places within which to heal. You get to know each other closely and hopefully learn to accept each other through the years for all your strengths and weaknesses. As you grow, your partner can be …

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KATHY | How to Put the Valentine Sparkle Back in Your Marriage

    Remember when you were in grade school and Valentine’s day was fast approaching? Maybe you made individual valentines by hand or carefully chose a package at the store that best expressed your sentiments. As you filled them out, you chose which valentine was …

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KATHY | Facing Opposition in Love and How to Get on the Same Side

When I was first married I found working out the compromises and agreements of our couple’s life tiring. After all, if I lived alone I’d get to quickly make all my own decisions. As a couple we would live for awhile until we ran into …

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KATHY | Hang in There Instead of Getting Hung Up on Excuses

    When you first fall in love and get married, everything seems so great. You can’t get enough of each other and any problems seem unimportant.  Then when you have been married for a while, things that didn’t bother you before start getting on …

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KATHY | The Love Getaway

    Every couple needs time alone with each other. There are date nights, weekends away and then there are those “oh so looked forward to” special vacations together. It is a time to remember why you married each other in the first place. Children, …

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KATHY | Why Couples Find Each Other So Imperfect

  I was listening to a PBS special last night when David Foster and Celine Dion were discussing all the songs that they have collaborated on.  One stood out –“Because You Loved Me”. She sang, ”You saw the best there was in me.” Do you …

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KATHY | All You Need is Love, Love, Love

  I see so many couples in my office who have neglected treasuring their relationship. They have success, possessions, friendships, activities, goals, plans, blogs, Facebook accounts, iphones and ipads and yet find themselves feeling empty in their marriage. The Beatles sang to us ,”All We …

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KATHY | Ingredients to a Great Sex Life

Most people think that sex in a marriage is good only for the first few years. I disagree. I think good sex over the lifetime of a marriage takes focus and making it a priority. All the research says that women not only need visual …

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